Christian Marriage is better than Islam Marriage | Mom Fears God

 1. You CAN'T have more than one wife. 

Matthew 19:4-6 
"he who created them from the beginning made them male and female and said,
‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? 
So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate."

Unfortunately, there are still some religions and indigenous cultures that allow themselves to have multiple wives. Personally, I find it very disgusting because I believe the main reason men allow these rules to persist is due to lust. If you have the fear of God in you, you will fear committing sins and strive to be loyal by following the word of God. Fearing God means hating sin, and lust is one of those sins.

Matthew 5:28 
But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

1 Corinthians 6:18 

Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.

I feel secure and happy knowing I don't have to worry or feel sad about my husband being intimate with someone else. In my opinion, men who desire multiple wives may be driven by lust instead of genuine love. Some religions give them a sense of higher authority to do as they please just because they are "men." 

In Christianity, Jesus loves all of us equally, knowing us before we were born. Being loyal to one person also means being loyal to one God.

 2. Marriage is arranged by God, not by Parents. 

Jeremiah 29:11

"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."

I've heard about arranged marriages still happening today, where people sometimes marry their cousins or even children to older men. While you may show me statistics and low divorce rates in support of arranged marriages, what about those who don't want to be married because they're not ready? Who will speak for them?

In some cases, religion, culture, and tradition impose these marriages without considering what is truly best for the individuals involved. It becomes a selfish act that prioritizes the desires of the parents or society over the well-being and readiness of their children.

Mark 7:8
"You have let go of the commands of God and are holding on to human traditions."

However, in Christianity, we believe that when two God-fearing individuals were meant to be together will come together unexpectedly but only in God's timing.

I recall meeting my husband when we were younger, but we never spoke. It was only after 10 years that we started talking and being together. Although the timing seemed longer, we believe it was God's perfect timing. We sometimes wish we had been together sooner and avoided our past mistakes, but we trust that God's timing is always right.

Perhaps the reason it took us so long is that we needed time to grow and mature individually, mostly from me than him as I'm 3 years older than him. Now that we're together, we can learn from our past mistakes and improve ourselves by being together.

One of the most romantic things my husband did was asking a pastor to bless us. It made me feel like we were married, even without a fancy dress or an expensive ring. But because I love God, I don't care about earthly materialism or trendy things. What matters most to me is that God is with me, and He gave me this precious moment because He loves me.

and I do what I can to please him. I love you Jesus.

3. God Hate Divorce & Remarry (Only until Death)

Matthew 19:6
"So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, let no one separate."

Many people in the world resort to divorce as an escape from the pressures they face. However, in doing so, they break their own vows. Please understand that I'm not suggesting you should remain in an abusive relationship or an arranged marriage.

Divorce can be granted in certain situations, but it's important to note that remarriage is discouraged. That's why I encourage people to think carefully before entering into marriage. A true man of God will treat you with respect and prioritize his relationship with God. The reason relationships fail is often due to the division sowed by Satan.

Depression, jealousy, and other challenges will inevitably test you, but having a mature understanding of God's word can strengthen your marriage. Remember, with God at the center, you can overcome any difficulties you may face.

Matthew 4:4
 For we do not live by bread alone, but with the word of God.

This is what Jesus said when he was tested by Satan. It's important to remember that what you're feeling is just a feeling. Your eyes haven't seen the truth, but your mind has created its own false narrative.

Be cautious of this kind of thinking, whether it's in marriage or any aspect of life. We may speak ill of others without truly understanding them first.

My mom has bipolar disorder, and she often displays negative behaviors like gossiping and cursing. However, if you observe her in moments of solitude, you'll see her crying and wondering what's wrong with her.

While she still exhibits the same patterns from time to time, we must remember that behind someone's rampage and destruction, there's a vulnerable child crying. I'm sure you understand how that feels, which is why I believe we shouldn't rush to judge until we comprehend what others have been through.

Everyone has their own struggles, including us. Only Jesus can wipe away our tears and truly know our hearts. You may feel a sudden warm embrace and an overwhelming urge to cry even more.

Just remember, He loves you and is there with you.

Can Christian Get Tattoo? You Asking Is Already An Issue | Mom Fears God

Leviticus 19:28 

"Do not cut your bodies for the dead or put tattoo marks on yourselves. I am the LORD."

I've noticed that many Christians are becoming more focused on 'worldly' religious practices rather than having a genuine relationship with Christ. Some of them display their faith through tattoos, similar to how Catholics wear crosses. However, it's important to question whether these outward symbols truly reflect a sincere and meaningful connection with Christ. It is also important to remember that the decision to modify one's body through tattoos is a personal choice and not a directive from God.

You might be asking 'Other Christian are getting a Tattoo, why can't I do it?

Isaiah 5:20

Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter!

 1 John 2:15-16:

"Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in them. For everything in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—comes not from the Father but from the world."

Please don't copy others who think getting a tattoo is a good thing. It's like Christians celebrating Halloween and wearing an angel costumes, saying "I didn't dress like a demon, so it's okay," while still enjoying this demonic celebration.

Before deciding to get a tattoo, it's crucial to consult the Holy Spirit within you and ask, "Am I allowed to have a tattoo?" We shouldn't solely rely on our own understanding but seek God's guidance and wisdom in all our decisions.

Proverbs 3:5-6 

"Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight."

The Bible doesn't mention any prophets who had or allowed tattoos. We should remember that the Bible is God's word and we need to follow its teachings. If the Bible says something is wrong, we should listen and obey because God knows what is best for us.

1 Peter 3:3-4 

"Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight."

Don't get a tattoo just for looks. God values the goodness within you, not your outward appearance. Tattoos seek human approval, not God's. To impress God, share the Gospel and live a faithful life. Those who truly fear the Lord and serve Him will be noticed, not those who only display tattoos and claim to be proud Christians.

To have a true relationship with Jesus, we must align our mindset with his teachings. Simply professing to be a Christian is not enough. Our thoughts and actions should reflect our faith. 2 Corinthians 5:7 "For we live by faith, not by sight."

If you try to seek acknowledgment from men by showing that you are a Christian, Jesus will NOT acknowledge you. Don't be a lukewarmer.

Matthew 7:22-23

On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’

"Worker of lawlessness", that was what Jesus said. The Bible is the Law, you as a Christian should follow all of it without question, if not you are one of the lawlessness. Don't just cherry-pick to satisfy yourself or misinterpret the word, changing the meaning of the law of the bible for your own desire of the flesh would remove yourself from the book of life.

Revelation 22:18-19

"For I testify to everyone who hears the words of the prophecy of this book: If anyone adds to these things, God will add to him the plagues that are written in this book; and if anyone takes away from the words of the book of this prophecy, God shall take away his part from the Book of Life, from the holy city, and from the things which are written in this book."

Don't you know that tattoos have been associated with pagan beliefs and practices throughout history. Different cultures and belief systems have used tattoos for various purposes, including spiritual or religious significance. It's important to be aware of these historical and cultural contexts when considering the meaning and implications of getting a tattoo.

You getting a tattoo even if it's a cross, you are actually following the practices of the nations.

Deuteronomy 18:9-12 

“When you come into the land that the Lord your God is giving you, you shall not learn to follow the abominable practices of those nations. There shall not be found among you anyone who burns his son or his daughter as an offering, anyone who practices divination or tells fortunes or interprets omens, or a sorcerer or a charmer or a medium or a necromancer or one who inquires of the dead, for whoever does these things is an abomination to the Lord. And because of these abominations the Lord your God is driving them out before you.

You may say "But we don't practices divination or tells fortunes or interprets omens, or a sorcerer", it's just tattoos symbolizing my belief in Christ.

Let's speak of Mayans. Tattoos among the ancient Mayans often had a spiritual or religious significance, as they were believed to establish a connection with their gods. (sounds familiar now?)

The Mayans viewed tattooing as a way to communicate with the spiritual realm and to honor their deities. The tattoo designs often featured symbols and images associated with their gods and spiritual beliefs, serving as a form of devotion and reverence. Tattoos were considered a means of expressing their faith and strengthening their connection to the divine.

Again let me bring back the bible verse.

Deuteronomy 18:9 

When you enter the land the LORD your God is giving you, do not learn to imitate the detestable ways of the nations there.

What more proof should I give for you to stop getting tattoos? 

Another bible verse that speaks about our temple which is our body that God will destroy the person if you "choose" to destroy your own body on purpose.

1 Corinthians 3:16-17

"Don’t you know that you yourselves are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit dwells in your midst? If anyone destroys God’s temple, God will destroy that person; for God’s temple is sacred, and you together are that temple."

1 Corinthians 6:19-20

"Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore, honour God with your bodies."

Look at it this way at the photo below. A sample of our body pure and as how God sees us.

And this is you, choosing to add ink onto it. Doesn't matter if it's small, you shouldn't be doing with the body that God has given you.

Love your body as how God love you. Don't damage your temple just so you show your faith towards others. Isn't speaking about the Gospel is better than showing it on your body?

Is it still forgivable? 

Of course it is! Even you have a tattoo now, God will still forgive you. Just realize what you did is wrong and stop doing it. Repent and be born again. 

Matthew 16:24

"Then Jesus said to his disciples, 'Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me.'"

When you realize you are Team Thanos | Mom Fears God

So, I joined this Discord Christian group, and I won't mention its name because I don't want to start any drama. I removed myself from ungodly people and things like secular shows and music that could corrupt my mind and way of thinking. I believe that supporting such shows would give the devil a tool to use against me, unless I'm trying to expose them.

The reason I joined this Discord is because I want to be surrounded by Bible-believing Christians, and there are almost 1000 members in the group. However, I'm upset because many of them don't know the Bible well. One member even told me not to take a video I sent too seriously. The video was about the Avengers and how they took parts from the Bible, twisting them to make it appear like we are supporting the good side when, in reality, we are supporting the evil side.

Revelation speaks of the end of humanity because of all the sinners corrupting the earth, but it's not the end for believers who will surely be brought up to heaven. In Avengers: Endgame, the story is about killing Thanos and anyone else who tries to destroy the earth. However, it's hard to see Thanos and Ultron as the good guys because, of course, it's movie magic, and they can make anything happen.

We support the Avengers because we see them doing good and saving many, just like any other superheroes. But when we talk about the Bible, it's different. 

Should we stop Jesus from coming so we can continue living on earth? 

Should we go against the Father's will? 

If you truly believe as you say you do, are you willing to stop the Father's will?

God has given us many chances to repent and change our ways. We wake up every day thankful for the breath of fresh air, while hell has none. We have food on our table to nourish our bodies. We have a choice to make, which team to choose: Team Jesus or the world. Look at the world through Heaven's eyes, see how it is now.

Men are becoming women, and women are becoming men. There are higher rates of gay marriages. The devil wants this to happen so that the birth rate will be low. Do you think the devil wants to see the earth populated? Of course not, the devil hates us because we bear the image of God. Let's be clear: we are not God, we are only made in His image. I'm tired of how people twist and distort the truth.

Now, in many schools, we must comply with the new norms, because if we don't, they will take our children away for following the laws of the Bible, for following Jesus' way. This is what the devil wants: division, confusion, and corruption.

Calling Out Demon & They Can't Touch Me | Mom Fears God

I know it's been a long time since I last wrote something in my blog, but I'm trying to brush up and return back to Christ. I will explain the details of my return in another post at a later time. For now, I want to share a short dream that I had recently.

I found myself in a place that resembled a low-budget inn, and coincidentally, I was with my two college friends. Then, to my surprise, my husband appeared there, and I felt a sense of comfort and fell in love with him all over again within the dream. I asked him if he could stay with us in a shared room.

Out of nowhere, I felt an urge to tell my "friends" in the name of Jesus, "I cast you out." As my husband and I lay on the bed without moving, both of my "friends" suddenly attempted to attack us and exclaimed, "Why did you use Jesus' name to cast us out?" They tried their hardest to harm us, but there was a barrier preventing them from hurting us. I didn't feel scared; I was just amazed.

Didn't even knew they were a demon, but I'm glad the Holy Spirit back me up.